Friday 28 February 2014

Experiencing Other Worlds // Part One

One of the things that I have always had in my life is constancy. Since the age of five, I have always had school to go back to each term and a house to go back to every day. Since moving to London, completely changing my life and my orientation, I have become more restless. I want to vary my boring routines, do different things in the evenings, work in different places, and meet different people. I have seen other people’s hobbies and thought “I want to do that” countless times; I suddenly have interests in more things than I can count. While school stuck me in a bubble of comfort and security, London and my gap year experience has blown everything apart and forced me to rectify things through experience, learning and a lot of faith. I have chosen things for myself for the first time, learnt brand new skills and discovered skills I was unaware of previously. All this excitement has been contrasted with a job which, although extremely varied, is constant, has a definite routine and once again, I go away to the same home.
Sometimes you just need a change of scene, and during this month I have had the great privilege of stepping out of my usual work in a community cafe and into the other lands that London City Mission, the Christian charity I am working for this year, have expanded their branches to. I have been shadowing church-based placement, a chaplain and been involved for three days in the homeless day centre with my housemate. Since these experiences were such a poignant part of my February, I thought it best to separate them from the usual monthly updates and highlights and chat about each of them individually.

Firstly, I was able to shadow a missionary at the church that I have been attending in East London. There were huge differences to my normal day both in the way the days ran and the people who I encountered. I started later and the day kicked off with us waiting in a cold room in the downstairs of the church for three men from his English class to come for further reading, which involved reading the Bible (Mark) as an aid. Only two turned up, but it was a really interesting experience and we did that for the rest of the morning, correcting their English as they read aloud, answering questions about words they didn’t understand, and most excitingly talking to them about who Jesus was in the small passage we had been reading. What struck me most was how, at the end of the session when we just turned to chit chat, we learned that neither had any English friends. It saddens me that so many people who come into London only stick within their ethnic groups and that other Londoners don’t attempt to cross boundaries other than to order an Indian or Chinese. For all our talk about multiculturalism, it doesn’t actually seem to involve crossing cultural boundaries in a way which leads to understanding and deep friendships with those around us who were not brought up in Britain. The two men seemed surprised when we offered our friendship. I was able to invite them into the cafe for a chat with any of our staff as it is within their area and is accessible to them (and conveniently is where they have their usual English class).

After lunch we walked in the rain to do some door-to-door work, which again was completely different to what I do for the cafe. At the cafe it is about bringing people into the space to engage in the community we offer there, more than it is having spiritual conversations. When you are working for a church and inviting people to church, these conversations happen a lot more frequently and naturally and I relish in such interesting discussion (although at points it was far more intense than I was used to!). We then ran over to a bakery who gives the church their leftover bread to give to the homeless in the evening. After some admin jobs, we started to set up for the GrowTH project which runs in the area of Tower Hamlets where homeless people are referred and they then spend a night in a different church for 28 days. Each week, my church runs one of those nights and there are volunteers who cook dinner/breakfast and chat to the guests. The evening also involves a short Bible talk and an opportunity to discuss faith. While some of the 15-20 guests eat and then run to their beds to read, listen to music, or nap, others are really willing to chat and it was amazing to find out that many of the men had become friends over their time on the scheme and spent their day together, helping and protecting one another. One of the best things about the scheme is that over half of those who come on it between November and February last year were rehoused within the 28 days. It is such a simple idea and seems to be incredibly effective both in terms of social action and in terms of getting people to consider their beliefs. I am sad that the scheme is over as I only got to help on two occasions and enjoyed both very much. To find out more about GrowTH and their vision visit http://www.thisisgrowth.org/

My second day of shadowing was with the arts chaplain, although he dares to call himself that as it is a role that the guy pretty much created himself and is still developing, especially as it involves a lot of travelling about to different theatres and galleries etc and runs off a very flexible schedule compared to other chaplains such as those on the underground, rail, taxi ranks or post office who have solid places to visit each day. The day started off by visiting one of the ‘rival’ cafes within LCM, Cafe Eterno, on Neal Street in Covent Garden. It is a lot smaller and sees a lot of heavy traffic coming through, but still showcases art on the walls from independent artists (the current showing was of a Turkish guy who another missionary had met and put him in touch with the cafe to get his work up – and it was amazing work!) and has a very strong, friendly and lively team running it. The prices are notably higher than ours because of the location, however, and there is far less of a community feel to the place as with such a busy area people don’t hang about long, although they still have regular custom from people who work around the area and enjoy engaging in healthy discussion! I was especially please with my hot chocolate with whipped cream and marshmallows – the most you get at my place is some chocolate sprinkles. We then spent the majority of our day visiting the stage door of different theatres including the Cambridge Harold Pinter, Noel Coward and Queens where we spoke to different stage doorman. Most of it was general chitchat but as a bit of a theatre geek and one who formerly wanted to go into theatre, this was most exciting for me, especially as one of the doorman had obsessively obtained the image and signature of every person who had performed at the theatre which included Helena Bonham Carter, David Tennant, Celia Imrie, Simon Callow and Rupert Grint, to name a few. Oh, and he had a picture of Marilyn Monroe with then-husband Arthur Williams signed and dated too, and the image had some amazing nugget of theatre history behind it. How I WISH I had dared to take a quick picture: his walls were completely full and he was now using the ceiling (Rupert Grint, for instance, was on a pipe). It was quite a sight and surely something I will never see again. Luckily for me, the chaplain had more experience in art than theatre, so when it came to chatting about musicals and plays I was really in my element!

We also went round the National Gallery in the section where all the religious paintings from alters were. This is a section I normally miss out because I have previously found it to be boring and reminds me of a part of church history which makes me feel uncomfortable, where money was spent on making a church opulent and a display of art rather than a contributing towards a community of people reaching out to those around them. I now see these pictures in a new way, looking to the stories behind them and the themes that they convey rather than the time in history where they come from and the excessive amount of gold leaf used to produce them. It was a most informative time and this guy really knows his stuff and has such a history of working in the arts field as a professor and curator, so I felt quite honoured to sit under such knowledge for a few hours.
And so ends part one of this record of my explorations, into two very different worlds which both capture my full interest and have very different levels of glamour! Sorry that there are no photos on this post as I didn’t take any on either days because I was enjoying myself rather a lot and was too busy taking everything in. Photos will be included in my next post, be assured!

Are you feeling a little restless, like me, or do you take comfort in constancy? Let me know in the comments


-Antonia

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